What if Spiderman had Social Anxiety

Does wall-crawling and web slinging prevent social anxiety? I doubt it. Being so young, Spiderman can definitely get Social Anxiety.

Spidey Sense, aka, The Peter Tingle

Known to be a “friendly neighborhood” superhero, Spiderman has surely been around the block. He has fought Team Captain America in Germany, fought Mysterio and the Elementals in Europe, and has even been to space and fought Thanos on the planet Titan. As cool as all that sounds, we must remember that Peter Parker is only a high school teenager. His Aunt May even renamed his Spider Sense to Peter Tingle (talk about downgrading). Either way, this kid has the whole world in front of him.  

Considering Parker is so young, you may be wondering if he could develop social anxiety disorder (SAD) at his age. The answer is yes! SAD typically begins in adolescence as early as age 13 and can affect a person throughout his/her life. Below we examine two scenes from two different Spiderman movies from the MCU, and how SAD could potentially affect him and his actions. 

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1. The Social Anxiety Scene from Spiderman: Homecoming

Spiderman: Homecoming (2017) 

Scene: Liz’s house party, Washington Monument 

Anxiety Provoking Event: Large Social Gathering (Liz’s party) 

If Spiderman had Social Anxiety Disorder, he would never have had to save his classmates from the falling elevator inside the Washington Monument. That scene would never have happened. 

Background

While doing sit-ups with his friend Ned during gym class, Peter Parker gets invited to a house party hosted by his crush, Liz. He decides to go with the intention of impressing Liz by showing her that he is a friend of Spiderman. He was going to make an appearance as Spiderman, suggest that Peter is his friend, and then leave.  

key event

While suiting up on the roof of Liz’s home, Spiderman sees a blue explosion from a distance. He investigates and ends up fighting and chasing weapons dealers before being air lifted by the main antagonist, Vulture, and dropped in a lake. After being rescued from drowning by Iron Man, Spiderman is seen walking back to the party and finds a purple glowing Chitari energy core on the ground (it fell out of the van belonging to the weapons dealers he was chasing).

The weapons dealers tracked the core the next day back to Parker’s school, where it was being studied by Parker and Ned. Parker covertly shoots a tracker onto one of them and tracks them to Washington D.C. Coincidentally, Parker’s Academic Decathlon team was going to D.C. for a competition and Parker and Ned joined them. Ned held onto the purple energy core the whole time, thinking it was safe.  

Shortly after winning the Decathalon, Parker’s classmates went to the Washington Monument, where the Chitari energy core exploded causing major damage to the elevator. Spiderman made an incredibly daring rescue and saved everyone from certain death. 

How Sad would have changed spiderman’s behavior

If Spiderman had Social Anxiety Disorder (SAD), he would have never gone to Liz’s party. Parties are an extremely social event that would cause heavy feelings of anxiety from the fear of others judging you and the fear of being embarrassed. Parker would have a very difficult time speaking to Liz not only because he has a major crush on her, but also because others would see him speaking to her. That feeling of being watched and judged would overtake him as his face would turn bright red in blush, he would sweat profusely, and develop noticeably trembling hands. To make matters worse, when others notice him sweating and blushing so heavily, they would point out those symptoms creating more attention and worsening the anxiety. So instead of going through all this, Parker would simply spare this embarrassment and would just avoid going to the party. 

No rescue scene at the washington monument

If Parker doesn’t go to the party, he would never have fought/chased the weapons dealers and thus wouldn’t have found the explosive Chitari energy core. Ned wouldn’t be holding it in his backpack and there wouldn’t be any explosion at the Washington Monument. Spiderman’s amazing rescue of his classmates in D.C. would never have happened. That’s one less scene we would have enjoyed during the movie. 

2. The Social Anxiety scenes from Spiderman: Far From Home

Spiderman: Far From Home (2019) 

Scenes: Peter knocks on MJ’s door at the hotel, Peter speaking to MJ outside hotel 

Anxiety Provoking Event: Asking his crush to go out for an evening walk with him 

If Peter had Social Anxiety Disorder (SAD), he would never have found out that Mysterio was the bad guy and thus Mysterio would have never revealed Spiderman’s identity to the world. 

background

While on their class trip in Europe, Peter had a plan to reveal his true to feelings to MJ. But due to the hijacking of his trip by Nick Fury, Mysterio, and the Elementals, Peter’s plan changed. So after essentially ditching MJ at the opera house in Prague to fight the Elementals, Parker returns to the hotel for the evening, knocks on MJ’s door, and asks her to take a walk with him. MJ agrees and they leave the hotel together. 

key event

Not far from the hotel, Peter and MJ discover that the piece of metal she found from the fight Spiderman had against the Elemental earlier in the night is an advanced piece of illusion tech. This forces Peter to confirm MJ’s suspicions and reveal his identity as Spiderman. Mysterio (the bad guy in the movie) learns that Peter, MJ, and eventually Ned found out about his evil plan of destruction, thus causing him to target the three of them, and by extension their entire class, for termination. To prevent his secret from being revealed, Mysterio tried and almost succeeded in killing Peter and his entire class. 

How Sad would have changed spiderman’s behavior in Europe

If Spiderman had Social Anxiety Disorder (SAD), he would never have knocked on MJ’s hotel door and asked her out. It is incredibly difficult for someone with SAD to start a conversation with their crush, let alone ask them out. It’s not just simply being nervous like many people might be thinking. With SAD, everything is amplified. So, the typical feeling of nervousness before asking your crush out is disproportionately greater in a person with SAD than a person without SAD. This causes a whole lot of thinking and overthinking. Every scenario would have played and replayed in Peter’s head, including: 

• If she says no, what will I do?
• What if she tells people that I asked her to go for a walk with me? What would everyone think of me?
• Did she hesitate before saying yes  
• Did she say yes because she didn’t want me to feel bad, or did she say yes because she actually wanted to go out and explore the city but just needed someone to go with her for safety reasons.  
• Does she really like me?  
• What if we are seen by other people from our class? What will they think of me? How would I explain that? 
• What if I blush and she notices it? That would be so awkward

As you can see, someone with SAD overthinks every possible scenario because they are completely terrified of being embarrassed. Asking his crush to go out with him would run the risk of rejection, which is incredibly humiliating. So, to avoid this intense fear of embarrassment and humiliation, Peter would not have asked MJ out at all. Instead he would have waited and hoped that she would ask him out instead.  

Spiderman’s identity kept a secret

If Peter doesn’t ask out MJ, they may never have learned about the illusion tech Mysterio was using, and Peter and his classmates would never have been targeted for termination. In fact, Mysterio would have left Peter alone and there wouldn’t have been any fight between them. This means that Mysterio would never have revealed the true identify of Spiderman to the world. Consequently, the events of Spiderman: No Way Home would not have transpired.